As a long time relationship expert I have identified the top
relationship breakers all marriages face, including
my own. Having been married for 15 years and having
to face blending families issues, financial sharing
and managing career with marriage I know what you
will be feeling because I used to feel it to!I want to share those
insights with you so that you can have the marriage
you deserve!
After
working with and transforming the marriages of
hundreds and hundreds of couples in my private
practice, and having been married to my current
husband for 15 years, I have identified the
pearls and pitfalls, attitudes, inner beliefs
and dialogs you and your mate can have that
reveal the quality and outcome of your union.
More than anything, I want to help you have the
fulfillment, joy, happiness, intimacy,
communication, passion and friendship that
marriage was meant to offer you. As I see it,
your marriage is worth investing in. To prove
it, I will offer you just a few of the ideas I
share with my Brilliance clients.
Do you know that the REAL purpose of a marriage
is to evolve your soul? Do you want to learn
why?
If your soul growth stops, it may be because the
marriage has succeeded in its goal for you; that
goal may have been accomplished. Or perhaps you
just need some new tools to take the marriage
and your union to the next level?
When your marriage has served its purpose, you
or your mate will begin to either go “numb” or
feel that a separation is the next natural step.
But it is absolutely necessary to rule out that
hidden resentments, anger, and control issues
may be causing these signs.
Do you know that the number of fights you have
does not, in any way, determine the number of
years you will remain together or the health of
your marriage? But you do want to learn how to
use the feelings of anger and rage to promote
deep bonds of intimacy.
Have you ever considered that your marriage is
designed to identify and excavate your core
wounds, personality weaknesses, and greatest
fears and expose them so that you and your
spouse can be healed from them? Of course, you
have, but many don’t realize that this work is
necessary; they misinterpret the “excavated”
wounds and fears within the union, and they
conjure feelings of betrayal, disappointment,
rejection, distance and withdrawal.
Do you realize that the inner child within you
is still working out its wounds with your
spouse? And are you aware that in many ways you
are “married” to your mom or dad – the parent
who, you felt, least approved of you, but for
whom you desperately wanted to feel good enough?
If you didn’t know this, you could unknowingly
allow an unhealthy parent-child psychological
dynamic to emerge, which extinguishes sexual
desire and hijacks your marriage.
Can you consider for a moment the impact it
could have on your marriage if you consciously
knew how your mate was supporting your ongoing
growth and empowerment? Yet if you did not have
the information to identify this support, you
would be missing out on one of marriage’s
greatest offerings.
Have you noticed that you are married to the
denied, disliked and disowned parts of your
character? And when you and your spouse both
know this is true and can envelop and love all
those parts, then and only then is your marriage
able to reach its highest level.
If you do not feel that your marriage is doing
all this soulful “alchemy” or if you are not
certain that your marriage does and can turn
what is painful into what is painless, then a
Brilliance Consultation will give you the
insights you need.
My Marriage Consultations are $275.00 per hour for marriage coaching. Coaching is done over the phone or through skype. I also book appointments if you are in my area.
Call me now at 1-403-278-3700 or email question at moreahragusa.com |
The New Marriage Paradigm
Inspiring the Transformation and Evolution of Committed Relationships
 The breakthrough ideas presented in this book define the deepest meaning of success for any marriage. With wisdom and compassion, Moreah Ragusa explains the evolutionary process through which all romantic relationships must advance. At the heart of the book is the author's pulsing desire to help couples establish a more intimate, transparent, and fulfilling union.
An authentic and convincing resource, this book provides the essential concepts and tools to help you discover, live, and celebrate The New Marriage Paradigm.
Click here to read an excerpt from the book
The New Marriage Paradigm Journal
An Explorative Workbook Designed to Strengthen Your Committed Relationship
 The powerfully revealing questions and exercises presented in this journal, which can also be used as a stand-alone workbook, will guide you to discover the deepest meaning of success for your marriage.
The often unrecognized limiting beliefs and fears held deeply within your psyche and emotional body can mold and deteriorate your relationships. Insights gained from the self-reflection inspired by this journal will help you to unveil and heal old wounds and hurts, sometimes derived from parental influences and childhood perceptions, that are sabotaging your marriage. |
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Why We Marry
Excerpt from The New Marriage Paradigm
by Moreah Ragusa
People marry to accomplish differing goals.
These goals and achievements, as well as
acquirements, are often driven by the
partners’ desires and values. For instance,
Bob and Cathy, who are in their late
twenties, are both schoolteachers. They met
four years ago, have dated seriously for the
past 18 months, and are engaged to be
married. They both want children soon, and
they want to have summers off together to
spend at Cathy’s parents’ cabin, just as her
parents did when she was little.
They share the dream of
wanting to raise a tight-knit family, and
both feel valued and appreciated because
their common primary desires weave a bond
between them. Cathy and Bob also enjoy
outdoor sports and spend many weekends
hiking. Their relationship allows them to
pursue their highest values together.
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